Let’s not sugarcoat it—fuck boys are everywhere. They’re charming, well-dressed, and know exactly what to say to make you feel like you’re the one. But spoiler alert: they’re not looking for love, just attention, validation, and maybe a warm body on Friday night.
So how do you spot one before you’re deep in the group chat asking your friends if you’re overthinking it? Here’s your red flag radar:
1. He’s Emotionally Available… Until He’s Not
One minute he’s texting you “good morning, beautiful” and the next he’s ghosting like he’s in witness protection. A fuck boy knows how to show just enough affection to keep you hooked—but never enough to build anything real.
2. Everything’s a “Vibe,” Nothing’s a Plan
He doesn’t date you, he hangs out with you. Plans are vague. “Let’s chill” is his go-to phrase. If he can’t lock in a dinner reservation but can always find time to “pull up,” you already know what it is.
3. He Keeps You Guessing
He’s allergic to clarity. He avoids labels. He says he’s “just seeing where things go,” even though y’all have been “talking” for three months. That confusion you feel? It’s by design.
4. His Social Media Screams ‘Main Character’
He’s half-naked in half his photos, loves mirror selfies, and mysteriously never posts you even though you’re “his girl.” His DMs are probably a digital landfill of heart eyes and “wyd” texts.
5. You Feel Like You’re Competing
With other women, with his ego, with his freedom. You’re always trying to prove you’re chill enough or cool enough to earn more of him. Meanwhile, he’s giving the bare minimum and calling it effort.
The Bottom Line: If someone makes you feel unsure, insecure, or like you’re doing the most just to keep their attention—they’re not your person. Fuck boys thrive on confusion. Real men bring clarity.
And if you’ve already dated one? Congrats—you now have a new story for the group chat and a reason to wear that “Kick Rocks” tee with pride.